The Story

This case begins with trust, betrayal, and proof. It is the story of a survivor who did everything — reported, documented, handed over irrefutable evidence — only to watch Nevada’s institutions bury the truth to protect one of their own.

In February 2024, I planned what was supposed to be a consensual sexual encounter with my boyfriend, {M}, and my longtime friend {D}, a Nevada state official. Instead, it became a violent sexual assault. The encounter was recorded on video — not as evidence, but because it was part of what we thought would be a shared experience. That footage shows me screaming “no,” begging for it to stop, and being ignored.

I tried to escape, but {D} held me down, forcing his hand inside me while telling me to “shut up.” Neither {M} nor {R}, a friend present, intervened. At the time, I doubted myself — was it really as bad as it felt? Months later, watching the video again, I confirmed: it was exactly what I feared. It was rape.

The Institutional Response

In July 2024, I submitted a formal complaint to the Nevada Division of Insurance, where {D} was employed. I sent the videos, along with written testimony. Instead of being treated as evidence of a crime, the videos were described by state officials as “pornographic” and “disturbing.”

{D} was quietly asked to resign. He was escorted out of the building by Capitol Police — not in handcuffs, but with his reputation intact. He was given a neutral reference, allowing him to secure another government job. I was told he was being arrested. He wasn’t.

The Clark County District Attorney, Steve Wolfson, refused to prosecute and said the Attorney General had to do it, despite the video evidence. He told me privately he could prosecute men who rape prostitutes, but implied that because I had been in a relationship with {D}, my case didn’t qualify. The Attorney General, Aaron Ford, inherited the case and refused to act.

Internal memos show my complaint was altered. The evidence was passed between offices, but never pursued. My assault — visible on video — became an administrative problem for the state, not a crime against me.

The Fight Forward

Since then, I have filed complaints with federal agencies including the DOJ, FBI, and the Office for Victims of Crime. I have submitted public records requests, many of which have been denied. I have launched civil suits — against {D}, and against Nevada.

I built this site to tell the full story myself, in my own words. This is not just about one night. It’s about how Nevada covered for one of its own, how evidence was buried, and how systems of power shield themselves from accountability.

• {D} – Former Nevada Deputy Insurance Commissioner for Consumer Affairs. Later briefly employed as an Assistant Attorney General in Vermont. Central perpetrator of the February 2024 assault, recorded on video. {D} was the first man I let myself trust after years of violence in marriage — and he weaponized that trust against me.
• {M} – A man I had only been on a few dates with. On what was supposed to be our third date, he joined {D} in raping me. He was the one holding the phone, recording while I begged them to stop.
• {R} – I knew {R} for ten years. He was the one who introduced me to {M}. That night, he sat silently in the room, doing nothing as I screamed. A decade of knowing me, and when it mattered most, he chose silence.
• {S} – I've known {S} for seven years in an on-again off-again relationship. For much of that time he was {D}’s romantic rival, circling in the same orbit. Another thread in the same web of rivalry, betrayal, and silence. Also referred to as "some high school dropout card dealer from fucking Jersey." 
• Brian 1 – My first husband, the father of my children. For fifteen years he beat me, terrorized me, and tried to erase me with fists and fear. Escaping him was survival.
• Brian 2 – My second husband. For three years of marriage he was sexually abusive, reducing intimacy to coercion. Leaving him was another escape — but it left me scarred and vulnerable.
• Steve Wolfson – Clark County District Attorney. Declined charges and said the AG had to do it. Had a meeting with me and his henchmen Guido the Enforcer and Doe Eyes McGee. Looked at a woman with video evidence of her own rape and basically called me a whore. Said he could prosecute men who raped prostitutes — but not my case, not me. 
• Aaron Ford – Nevada Attorney General. General Asshole. Gubernatorial candidate for Nevada Took the case after Wolfson. Ignored every single email, phone call, complaint, and social media mention. Treats me like I didn’t exist. Now has the counterterrorism unit surveilling me, but still has not spoken to me about my case nor has anyone in his office. 
• Nevada Division of Insurance (DOI) – Employer of {D}. Received my complaint and my videos, called them “pornographic,” and let him resign quietly with a neutral reference. Protected the state, not me. Called {D} "Esteemed" on social media before blocking me, violating my First Amendment rights
• Nevada State Police/Capitol Police (NSP) – Escorted {D} out of DOI like a man clocking out for the day. No arrest. No accountability. Accidentally told me he was being arrested. 
• Governor’s Office of Nevada – Sat on my July 2024 complaint. Did nothing. Pretended they never saw it. Received an Administrative Synopsis from the Chief of the Nevada State Police Investigations Division stating that it would look bad for the Governor if this went public. That Chief was then promoted to head of the Highway Patrol, which I am certain is as unrelated as the ticket I got from the Highway Patrol.

 

February 2, 2024 — The Assault

• Planned sexual encounter with {M} and {D}.
• Recorded on video: I scream “no,” beg for it to stop, and am ignored.
• Neither {M} nor {R} intervenes.
• {D} holds me down and assaults me.
• {D} tells me he loves me while assaulting me.
• 4 video are created of the events.
• {M} joins {D} in the assault in the 4th video
• {D} then tells {M} he is taking me home and keeping me and they shake hands over my exchange between them.

July 2, 2024 -- Viewing the Video

• I finally watch the video from that night and my world starts to unravel 

July 4, 2024 -- The Heart Attack

• {D} is ignoring me because he is with his other girlfriend while I am melting down over the video, so I show up at his place and he fakes a heart attack to avoid me
• I agonize over whether to go to the police or submit the video as an ethics complaint to his employer, the Division of Insurance

July 5, 2024 — The Complaint/The Apocalypse

• I submitted a written complaint and videos to the Nevada Division of Insurance (DOI), where {D} was employed.
• Emails are blocked,
• In response to being blocked, I sent it to other Deputy Commissioners, Legal, and subordinates who are known to be union representatives to make certain it is not ignored. 
• DOI labels the videos “pornographic” instead of treating them as criminal evidence.
• The email is sent to human resources by the Chief Deputy Commissioner
• {D} proceeds to threaten me with "revenge porn" charges coming from the Division of Insurance

July 8, 2024 — Internal Memo

• An unsigned, undated internal memo refers to the videos as “sexually explicit material.”
• This memo is forwarded to Capitol Police, minimizing the assault as an HR issue.

July 9, 2024 — Police Interview

• I am interviewed by detectives.
• Afraid I’ll be arrested for “revenge porn” threats made by {D}, I nearly cancel.
• A sergeant convinces me to attend.
• Police affirm it is sexual assault
• Police attempt to get an arrest warrant

July 12, 2024 — The Botched Arrest

• {D} is escorted out of DOI by Capitol Police.
• I am told he is being arrested “at that moment.”
• {D} is not arrested.
• I am told it is a jurisdictional issue.

July 14, 2024 --  Job Offer

• {D} receives "soft job offer" from a lawyer he called because I told him he was going to be arrested
• Later reveals the offer was "with the state"

July 15, 2024 — Case Sent to Attorney General

• Clark County DA Steve Wolfson refuses to prosecute, says the Attorney General must do it.
• Wolfson tells detectives he won’t even review the case file. Never watches the video.
• He tells me separately that he could prosecute men who rape prostitutes — but implies my relationship with {D} disqualifies me.
• The case was sent to Nevada Attorney General Aaron Ford.
• Ford’s office declines to act, despite clear video evidence and internal acknowledgment that {D} was unfit for his role.

July 23, 2024 -- Resignation

• {D} is asked to resign from the State of Nevada and given a neutral reference.

December 2024--Ethics Complaint to the Vermont/RapeIsRape.Org/Counterterrorism Unit

• Sent ethics complaint to the Vermont Judiciary's Professional Review Board
• PRB proceeds with investigation-- still ongoing
• I created the website as an outlet, just something I decided to do in the middle of the night.
• The Attorney General's Counterterrorism Unit begins surveillance of me and this website for "indirect threats" on Facebook when no posts were ever made on Facebook by me regarding the Attorney General in the timeframe
• I attempt suicide.

 2024-2025 — Vermont Move/Termination

• {D} goes to Vermont, taking a position as an Assistant Attorney General.
• Moves in with his girlfriend, who files for divorce from her husband at the same time
• Vermont terminates him after discovering my website and allegations in April, 2025

February 2025 -- Job Posting and Indignation

• A job posting appears from the Attorney General's office that aligns with {D}'s "soft offer" from the State, the day before Wolfson kicked it up to the AG
• The posting is directly timed to when {D} was planning to take the bar exam in Nevada
• I become infuriated and indignant and have remained as such
• Surveillance continues

Spring 2025 — Federal Complaints

• I file complaints with:
  
  • DOJ Civil Rights Division
  • FBI Public Corruption Division
  • Office for Victims of Crime
• Surveillance continues 

June 2025 -- Civil Complaint

• I filed a civil case against {D} for Sexual Assault/Battery, Infliction of Emotional Distress, and False Imprisonment 
• Multiple Nevada public records requests are made to help support my case, which I am fighting pro se.
• Surveillance Continues

July 2025 -- Public Record Filing/Harassment 

• I filed in court against the Attorney General's office, the Governor's Office, and the Division of Insurance for not acknowledging public records requests.
• Over 200 hits on this website from {D}'s IP address in one week.
• Received messages from a man on an adult website that I believe were from {D}
• Filed complaint with the Nevada State Police
• Records from the AG and DOI are still pending and expected in November and September 2025, respectively.
• The Attorney General's office sends 3 lawyers to a status hearing on the public records filing. 
• Surveillance continues 

August 2025 -- No Longer in Good Standing/Ongoing Legal

• {D} is no longer listed as an attorney in good standing in Vermont
• I burst into tears at a public records status hearing
• I have the public summons for the civil case published in Vermont because {D} was able to elude service.
• {D}'s attorney contacts me for a copy of the complaint. She is an employment attorney 
• Surveillance-- you guessed it-- continues